Sunday, September 11, 2016

Always Look on the Bright Side of Life


Brother Jim notes that this whole discussion of "Time to call Hospice," "That sucks," "Well, on the bright side, Strasburg's ulnar collateral ligament is intact" (at least according to one of those pesky MRIs) is getting a little surreal. Hard to argue with that.

Monty Python's Life of Brian. "Always Look on the Bright Side of Life!"
I can only say that my primary frame of reference for end-of-life issues is Monty Python (despite actual reading of somewhat more contemplative literature on the subject) while my primary frame of reference for life issues is baseball (in addition of course to the love and support of family and friends and the goodness of humanity and all that) so where are you going to go?

Regardless, it was clear when Sally and I watched Strasburg slink off the mound on Wednesday night, muttering into his glove, that I was not the only guy in Washington preoccupied by health issues this week. Despite the circumstances, we owe the Nats organization huge thanks for accommodating my mobility issues with elevators, cheerful young men pushing wheel-chairs, and a swap of our field-level seats for accessible club-level chairs that looked directly over Strasburg's sad march down to the dugout after only 42 pitches. 

Wasn't much of a game, either, at least at first -- an hour-long rain delay followed by some anemic baseball until a give-and-take in late innings and ultimately a Ramos' walk-off single in the 11th, when we were long in bed. And by that time, I imagine Strasburg was on the phone to his family, keeping things in perspective. A $175 million, seven-year contract extension will help with that as well.

But this was supposed to be his season, and it sure looked that way early on. The news of his contract extension in May was cause for great rejoicing in Washington, and after his stint on the disabled list, those 42 pitches -- well, 40 pitches, number 41 looked tragically hinky -- in August seemed a road map to the World Series. He is certainly allowed a grimace.

We shall forgive Stephen Strasburg if he doesn't choose this moment to look on the bright side of life. 
And as for the reaction of F.P. Santangelo, Nats color guy extraordinaire, well what do you hire color guys for? "So this is about the worst possible thing that could happen."

Yes and no. For another perspective on that, there's Falluja and Tikrit, and Orlando, and yes, the more immediate issue in our household of how I'm doing. 


Could be better, no doubt, but I'm in good hands.

9 comments:

  1. "So this is about the worst possible thing that could happen." I was about to snark, "That's what the KC Chiefs announcer said today at halftime", but amazingly-enough, the Chiefs come back to win in OT after being down 24-3. We can only hope that the Royals have it in them too!

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  2. It is becoming increasingly hard to tease good news out of my situation, but it is good to know that miracles do happen.

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  3. No John, there's nothing good about your situation. But be proud of the fight you've put up and all that you've accomplished. You've had a hell of a run, putting more into your years than most people would even dream of. Thanks for all the vicarious adventures! And speaking of adventures, we don't even need to talk about the time you got us hopelessly stuck in the Great Arabian Desert, 20 miles from the nearest road, with the sun setting, without provisions, with the kids crying. We don't need to talk about that ;-)

    Regardless of your situation, It's clear that you and Sally have raised the girls with the resilience to go on and do great things. I have no doubt. You have a special family. It goes without saying that we'll be there for them if there's ever a need. And maybe even when there's not a need :-)

    And since I grew up reading the advice columns in the daily newspaper, I know that I mustn't miss the chance to say I Love You, even though I know, that you know that. There was never a doubt.

    But hang in there John, even without Strasburg, this is the year for the Nats!

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    1. Well let it not be forgotten that at that night at the Edge of the World (which is another name the Saudi expats call it) we had sufficient water and well-functioning two-way radios, while the crying kids on both families were building up all kinds of resilience (as they have since ably demonstrated) and the adults had some excellent opportunities to practice (somewhat nervous) Arabic. And let it not be left unsaid that I love you all very much.

      As for the World Series, I do think it may be time to let go of the Royals. At times we must face the inevitable. And time has been the problem for me for the last five years, including another one of those ferry rides speeding across the Mediterranean. http://skyofblueandseaofgreen2013.blogspot.com/2013/07/aboard-superfast-1-somewhere-in-adriatic.html

      But it all comes down to the World Series. Aa I watch the post-season calendar (http://m.mlb.com/postseason-schedule) approach quickly, I think the Nats have as good of a crap-shoot chance as anyone, but I do not. This may require Herculean measures. Can't we just move up November to October -- and hope for a little more stability in the Nats rotation?

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  4. Hey John. Wish I could think of something clever and witty to write but you are always the one with the right words to make us laugh - and ponder at the same time. Here's to sunny days and ice cream always. Love you. Pam

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  5. John - Thinking of you and sending greetings from the Emerald Isle...where baseball is rare but grassy fields are not.

    I look forward to joining you in pulling for the Nats this October-November. I can only hope the Orioles bats awaken and make it a Beltway series, although they will need some serious help to get there. I therefore hope you will remember the earnest and honest efforts I made to honor Kansas Day with you through the mass consumption of beef jerky and Coors and the impassioned rendering of "Home on the Range" around conference room tables in Cairo, Baghdad, and Washington. This spirit of camaraderie might incline you toward catching the remaining O's games where possible to give them a boost. I might suggest eagerly shouting the "O!" during the national anthem, consuming a few National Bohemian, and then dancing around to "Thank God I'm a Country Boy" during the seventh inning stretch as part of the experience. Deal?

    All the best to Sally and the kids. Thank you for sharing so much.

    Kevin

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  6. Thanks for the picture of you and your remarkable girls. And I am transmitting warm thoughts as well to the good people who cheerfully accommodate the "disabled" (hard for me to think of you that way) at sporting events. The good habits inspired by the ADA, frankly, are part of what makes America great (no swipe on Trump intended, although, come to think of it, why not). Everyone should be able to enjoy a good time at the ball park.

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  8. Can't we just move up November to October -- and hope for a little more stability in the Nats rotation?


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